Biblical Manhood and Womanhood: “The Grace Based Marriage” Ephesians 5:22-33 1. Do not obey Ephesians 5 as a new law. 2. Do not obey Ephesians 5 so you can move on to other things (get what you really want). 3. Do not obey Ephesians 5 as though marriage is the source of ultimate satisfaction. 4. Do not obey Ephesians 5 as though you were married to someone else. 5. Do not obey Ephesians 5 as though you were in the midst of a natural battle.