Perfect love is the result of God’s love being perfected in us. This is not something unreachable, or unobtainable. This is real and this is something we should experience in our lives.
1 John 4:17 – By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.